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confused and alone
Last night my husband had one to many beers before bed. I had to get up at 4:30 in the morning to go to work and he knew that. We have two small children so usually we take turns getting up with our daughter. He gets one night and then I get her the next. Last night was his turn. And I asked him to get her, he got up throwing the biggest tantrum stomping and yelling, I was afraid he was going to hurt the baby so I got up to take care of her and he laid back down. Im not sure why he did this, but when I turned around from the crib he kicked me in the knees and I fell backwards hitting my head against the side of the crib. After I recovered from that I got up and puched him in the arm I know it was wrong but I was so angry at him. After that all hell broke loose he kept trying to pin me down and call me all the most hurtful names in the book. I finally managed to get him pinned down to where he couldn't hurt me, but that enraged him even more. He got out of my hold and started to choke me, I was so terrified I couldn't get him to stop and I was starting to see stars. I finally kneed him in the stomach and he let go. I ran into the living room and called my mom and he left me alone after that and went back to sleep. My husband and I fight, but never like this. Im scared and im confused. I love him so much, but it hurts so bad that he could do this to me. I don't want to live like this, but I have nothing without him. He has the car the credit everything and I have nothing, 2 jobs and I have to take care of my mother and my children. So if anyone has any advice I would greatly appreciate it!

11/25/2007 09:05

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Hi im sorry this has happend to you and your kids. You can go to a transition house or a 2nd stage house if their is one in your area. Their is councelrs that can help you and Put you in a safe place to were your husband cant find you.The kids would need to see a counselor as well .Womens groups are very good to go to .You can talk about your story and other women talk about theirs.Everyone helps each other .I hope this helps you some.
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3/15/2009 09:40

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