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August 31st, 2010 On August 12, 2010 I received a phone call from one of my dearest friends in Reno (also named Pam). She asked if I remembered Evelyn from Rainbow I answered of course and we laughed at how she always followed us wherever we went. Evelyn was in the same assembly I was in. Pam and I were older than her however, we enjoyed being around her. It was fun to watch her blossom, when she first joined she was shy but it did not take long for her to show the fun loving person she was. Unfortunately, was is the operative word in this letter. Evelyn was murdered by her fiancé on August 1, 2010. Although it has been many years since I have seen Evelyn she was one of those people who when you thought about her it automatically brought a smile to your face. I have both smiled thinking about her and cried due to her tragic murder. After talking to Pam I went on line to find an article about Evelyn. I was shocked how brutal the beating was (I knew she was beat to death). I can’t imagine how her cousin felt seeing her like that. As an advocate, I was angry when at first he was only charged with second-degree assault. Fortunately he is being charged with 1st degree Manslaughter plus being a domestic violence crime that increases the severity in the charge. Instead of a maximum of 20 years for the Manslaughter he can be sentenced to life in prison. I contacted the Executive Director of the Women’s Resource Center in Astoria, Oregon. I am sure it was due to their presence the charges of domestic violence were considered. I will always remember Evelyn and her sense of fun and the great times we all had. I wish I did not have to write this however, as her friend and an advocate it will be my purpose to make sure she is always remembered and did not die in vain. Pam Lansford Victim Advocate Committee Against Domestic Violence Elko, NV P.S. If you know anyone who has a sudden personality change, even a slight one, talk to them and find out if there is any abuse going on. If there is, be supportive and encourage them to seek help through a domestic violence shelter in the area. |
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August 28th, 2010 "Wounded Spirit: The Legacy of Domestic Violence Through the Eyes of a Child" This workshop will be held on Tuesday, September 14th 2010 from 9 am to 5 pm. To register for it or to see the details, please download the PDF file below. |
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June 21st, 2010
A few notes we've recieved: #1: "I wanted to thank everyone for all the help the staff has provided me with. Everything was so kind of you guys. I also wanted to say that I was nervous about staying here. Most women’s shelters are kind of shoddy. But this place has more than surpassed any expectation I had. It was so clean and nice. I felt very safe here (if not too safe :) ) I was provided w/every kind of necessity. All the way from entertainment, food, toiletries, etc. Again, thank you to everyone. From me and my son. :) #2: "I was much more receptive to the services available this time. I was embarrassed by my repeat visit but quickly overcame that issue thanks to the warmth of the staff. I got so much more out of the peer counseling this time because I saw how well it worked in my previous visit. I was not so “afraid” of it or overwhelmed with feel I needed to do “everything at once”. I plan on carrying on with group. I didn’t last time and I see how that added to my “going back”. I am greatful and humbled by the help I have received while here at Harbor House." #3: "April 2010 I have been wanting to write this letter for along time. Part of it taken me so long was pride, embarrassment, shame, happiness and let’s just say overwhelmed! I am very ashamed to admit that I’m not sure how all these program get their funding. I am sorry for that. If this lets people know of the help out there or the will never to give up then it’s served its purpose. Also I would not of made it this far without all of you. :) First, thank you is Harbor House – without their staff and councilling I do not know were we would be. They have helped in the following ways, talking us through court, TPO, being scared to live alone. They have gave us food. The food always came when I needed it most. It made our lifes so much easier. Christmas the first year I left I could only buy the girls socks and a photo album. Any money family gave had to go for everything for a house we left with our cloths. I was so happy and embarrased when a family adopted us. The girls had a Christmas. The support Harbor House gives a family is priceless and they never make you feel ashamed. Also lets not forget group that is your safe place to sort out all your fears and feelings :) Next I need to thank VARN they took my divorce pro-bono and if it was not for them I would of probably not be able to get divorced. Maureen and Valerie went way up above their jobs to make sure me and the girls were protected in a legal form. Thank-you :) I would like to thank Janell Andersen, Frank Hall and Judge Puccinelli you guys took care of the girls. Your gave them awesome advise and protected them from more harm. You are our Heros. Thanks for being fair and the most important listening to my girls. You gave them back faith in people :) I would like to thank FISH and their staff and of course anyone who has donated to them. If I needed a washer, dryer, couch, bed, cloths and yes a car you helped me to find it. It may of took time to get it but we did and Thanks for always helping and treating us well. Thanks Susan :) I really just want you to know how important your job, your help or even you smile is. Thank you all. We will never forget your help. P.S. Thanks to Jim Watson at NYTC for helping me w/the mechanics of the car. Food donaters to Harbor House and our secret Santa. Mary Boyce for helping the girls know its okay to cry and have emotions. If I missed anyone I’m truly sorry :)" |
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June 7th, 2010
Teen Dating Violence As many as 1 in 3 teens has been abused in a relationship, according to a June 2009 survey of more than 3,000 youths by DoSomething.org, a national organization dedicated to teenagers and social change. According to the same survey, most stay in the relationship after the first act of violence. The abuse often starts with teasing and name calling, which many youngsters believe to be normal part of a relationship, according to the centers for Disease Control and Prevention. But that behavior can lead to more serious abuse. Studies on dating Violence (Nevada network Against Domestic Violence, are you in an Abusive and Dating Relationship pamphlet.), Of those reporting, girls report that their boyfriends initiated the violence 70% of the time; while the boys reported, the girlfriend initiated the abuse 27% of the time; 43% of the time the abuse took place on the school grounds. Of those disclosing approximately 30% of teenagers in dating violence relationship reported they told no one about their situation. 61% told only a friend, less than 3% of teenagers reported a violent incident to an authority figure (i.e. the police, a counselor, or social worker), and about 3%, told a family member. Statistically, 50% of girls living in violent households will become victims of partner abuse, while 85% of boys living with violence will be abusive to their partners. The CDC (Centers for Control and Prevention) says there are three common types of dating abuse: *Emotional abuse (name calling, teasing, threats, accusations, keeping a teen away from friends *Physical abuse (pinching, hitting, shoving, holding down) *Sexual abuse (unwanted touching, forced sexual activity)
Signs of Dating Abuse for Teen’s: Do you: *Ever feel guilty about having your own friends? Often feel pressure to spend time with your boyfriend/girlfriend when you’d rather do something else *Keep opinions or concerns to yourself to make things easier? *Change your behavior to avoid fighting with your boyfriend/girlfriend?
Does your boyfriend/girlfriend: *Get jealous when you talk to friends of the opposite sex? *Complain about or try to control what you wear? *Call or text you excessively? *Push you to do things you aren’t sure you want to (such as sex or drugs)? For Parents: While the following warning signs could indicate other concerns such as depression or drug use, these also should raise a red flag for parents and adult caregivers about the possibility of an unhealthy relationship.
Does Your Teen: *No longer hang out with his/her circle of friends? *Wear the same clothing? *Appear Distracted when spoken to? *Constantly check his/or her cell phone gets extremely upset when asked to turn the phone off? *Appear Withdrawn, quieter than usual? *Appear angry or irritable when asked how they are doing? *Showering immediately after getting home? *Have unexplained scratches or bruises?
THERE IS HELP: Contact Elko Committee Against Domestic Violence at 778-9454 or toll free at 1-800-738-9454 for more information. |
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March 23rd, 2010
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November 19th, 2009
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October 26th 2009
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August 13th, 2009
Elko Committee Against Domestic Violence also known as Harbor House would like to thank the community for their support throughout the years with donations of clothing, furniture, and household items. However, due to budget cuts, the organization no longer has the ability to store these items. Therefore, CADV is accepting limited donations effective immediately. Harbor House can only accept donations of food, pantry items, hygiene products, and paper products. Gently-used furniture and household goods must be pre-pproved by staff and delivered by the donor. Pickup is no longer available. Sadly, clothing can no longer be accepted unless new or specific to the wish list, available at the office and on the website, www.elkoharborhouse.com . To arrange donations or for more information, please call 738-6524. On behalf of the victims and their children, thank you for your understanding and continuing support. |
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July 27th, 2009
City of Elko Police Department, Elko Sheriff’s Office, Elko Fire Department, Nevada Division of Forestry and Elko County Emergency Services Community
Ask that you please join us for the “National Night Out Against Crime”
Tuesday, August 4th, 2009 6:00pm to 10:00pm at the Main City of Elko Park
We will be serving Food and Refreshments Interesting & Informative Exhibits Special gifts, fun forums and safety tips for children and adults Open Forums to talk with Law Enforcement and Emergency Services about how we all can learn to identify problems to help protect and make our community safer. Meet and talk local law enforcement & emergency service officers from the: Elko Police Department, Elko County Sheriff’s Office, Nevada Highway Patrol Police Athletic League PAL, City of Elko Fire Department, Nevada Division of Forestry, Elko County Ambulance Service, PACE, Elko Central Dispatch, Child & Family Services, Elko County Juvenile Department and many others AMERICAS NIGHT OUT AGAINST CRIME Giving Crime & Drugs a Going Away Party The Elko Police Department, Local Law Enforcement Community and Local Emergency Services would like to invite you and your family to the 26th annual National Night Out. This will be the City of Elko region 3rd annual National Night Out Against Crime. The National Night Out program provides a forum for the community to express their opinions, ideas and concerns on crime prevention in the community as well as receive expert advice from law enforcement identifying crime, drug and safety related issues. The National Night Out also provides a setting for the community to meet their Law Enforcement and Emergency Service officers in a positive setting. You will have the opportunity to learn about creating your own neighborhood watch, drug awareness, crime prevention, emergency preparedness, child safety and many other topics including the answers to your own questions and offering your opinions and concerns. This years National Night Out will be held at the main Elko City Park on Tuesday, August 4th from 6:00pm to 10:00pm. We will provide food and refreshments as well as fun games and gifts for kids of all ages. There will be key note speakers from the City of Elko Police Department, the Elko County Sheriffs Office and Community Leaders. We will have tables set up by the Elko Police Department, Elko County Sheriffs Office, Elko Fire Department, Elko Ambulance Service, Nevada Highway Patrol and Nevada Division of Forestry and many others all with information for you as well as to listen to your concerns, ideas and opinions. Help make the Elko region a Crime Free Community, send a message to criminals by organizing as a community and attending the National Night Out Against Crime on Tuesday, August 4th at the main City Park from 6:00pm to 10:00pm. If you are unable to attend then please show your support of the National Night Out Against Crime by turning on all of your exterior lights at dusk and let the criminals know we are all watching. What is National Night Out? It's America's Night Out Against Crime! The "26th Annual National Night Out" (NNO), is a unique crime/drug prevention event sponsored by the National Association of Town Watch (NATW).
NATIONAL NIGHT OUT is designed to: Heighten crime and drug prevention awareness; Generate support for, and participation in, local anticrime programs; Strengthen neighborhood spirit and police-community partnerships; and Send a message to criminals letting them know that neighborhoods are organized and fighting back. The History of NATW and National Night Out The National Association of Town Watch (NATW) is a nonprofit, crime prevention organization which works in cooperation with thousands of crime watch groups and law enforcement agencies throughout the country. Since 1981, NATW has been dedicated to the development, growth and maintenance of organized crime and drug prevention programs nationwide. NATW's network has grown to include over 6,500 crime, drug and violence prevention organizations. National Night Out, 'America's Night Out Against Crime,' was introduced by the Association in 1984. The program was the brainchild of NATW Executive Director Matt A. Peskin. In an effort to heighten awareness and strengthen participation in local anticrime efforts, Peskin felt that a high-profile, high-impact type of crime prevention event was needed nationally. At that time, he noted that in a typical ‘crime watch community’, only 5 to 7% of the residents were participating actively. Due to the growth and success of these programs, he felt this percentage was too low. Subsequently, he proposed a national program which would be coordinated by local crime prevention agencies and organizations - but that would involve entire communities at one time. The first National Night Out was introduced early in 1984 - with the event culminating on the first Tuesday in August. That first year, 400 communities in 23 states participated in National Night Out. Nationwide, 2.5 million Americans took part in 1984. The seed had been planted. In subsequent years, participation has grown steadily. The 25th Annual National Night Out last August involved 37 million people in 15,449 communities from all 50 states, U.S. territories, Canadian cities, and military bases worldwide. National Night Out 2009 will culminate on August 4th. Over 16,000 communities are expected to take part. While the traditional 'lights on' and front porch vigils remain a part of NNO, activities have expanded considerably over the years to include block parties, cookouts, parades, visits from police, festivals, neighborhood walks, safety fairs, contests, rallies and meetings. Peskin said, "It's a wonderful opportunity for communities nationwide to promote police-community partnerships, crime prevention, and neighborhood camaraderie. While the one night is certainly not an answer to crime, drugs and violence, National Night Out does represent the kind of spirit, energy and determination that is helping to make many neighborhoods safer places throughout the year. It [NNO] is a night to celebrate safety and crime prevention successes - and to expand and strengthen programs for the next 364 days." |
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June 15th, 2009
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April 21st, 2009
Members of Spring Creek Girl Scout Troop No. 395 proudly show off just a few of the Easter items they recently donated to CADV/Harbor House. From left, Emily Fonder, Bailey McCann, CADV/Harbor House Executive Director Yvette Waters, Torria Petrie, and Kiresa Wamego. Not pictured, Lizzy Andreozzi and Megan Hankel. Members of Spring Creek Girl Scout Troop No. 395 spent countless hours over the past 3 months putting together a wide assortment of items to ensure that any children who may find themselves at CADV/Harbor House over Easter weekend would be able to enjoy the holiday. The scouts created 2, one-of-a-kind handmade piñatas and filled them with candy and prizes they purchased with money they earned during their recent Girl Scout Cookie sale. To round out their donation, they also went on scavenger hunts throughout their homes, rounding up extra Easter baskets, plastic eggs, egg coloring kits, and spent one of their meetings making a variety of Easter themed homemade chocolate candies and suckers. “We all had a lot of fun working on this project. I really liked making the piñatas and candy,” said troop member Emily Fonder. “We like being able to help out other kids. It just makes you feel good.” According to CADV/Harbor House Executive Director Yvette Waters due to budget cuts, the staff wasn’t expecting to be able to do anything to help residents celebrate this upcoming holiday. “We can’t thank these young ladies enough for all of their hard work and generosity,” said Waters. “Because of them, the children at CADV/Harbor House will be able to celebrate Easter.” |
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P.O. Box 2531
Elko, Nevada 89803 |
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Office
738-6524 |
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Hotline
738-9454 |
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Toll Free
1-888-738-9454 |
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Fax
738-2976 |
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In accordance with Federal law and U.S. Department of Agriculture policy, this institution is prohibited from discriminating on the basis of race, color, national origin, sex age, or disability. (Not all prohibited bases apply to all programs). To file a complaint of discrimination, write USDA, Director, Office of Civil Rights, 1400 Independence Avenue, S.W., Washington, D.C. 20250-9410, or call (800)795-3272 (voice), or (202)720-6381 (TDD).
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This website is supported by funds through: Department of Heath and Human Services / Division of Child and Family Services Department of Heath and Human Services / Division of Welfare and Supportive Services Victim of Crime Act 1984 (VOCA) United Way of the Great Basin |
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Wish List:
Backpacks (slightly used is fine) Paper - lots! Loose and in binders Folders for paper Pen, pencils, erasers Memory sticks Rulers Scissors Composition books Non-abrasive cleaning products Toilet paper Paper towels Diapers (all sizes) and wipes New broom and dustpan Garbage bags Laundry soap, bleach, softener sheets Any food donations New or slightly used children’sclothing and shoes for school |